Smart women are allowed to talk about 'frivolous' things

In a recent article about how nobody actually reads The Economist but everybody says they do – voila, instant smart and serious persona – Mark Leibovich recalled the episode of The Simpsons where Homer is given a copy of The Economist on a plane.

 “Look at me, I’m reading The Economist,” he boasts to Marge. “Did you know that Indonesia at is a crossroads?”

For Leibovich, saying that he read The Economist often when he really only dabbled in it is a way of counteracting the fact that he, like anybody else who has tried to make themself sound more worldly than they really are, is a total faker.

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“Like many people who sometimes travel in high-powered circles, I am a complete fraud. I have no idea how I got here. This is an especially familiar condition in Washington, where I live, and where the impostor syndrome is like our psychological common cold. So a lot of people lie about reading The Economist here. We probably have the highest number of lied-about subscribers. Because it’s important to come off smart and worldly and cognizant that Lagos will overtake Cairo to become Africa’s biggest city in 2013. Also, that 2013 will be the first year since 1987 that will have all digits different from one another. And it could be a really big year for neutrinos," he writes.

A similar fraudulence occurs on my bookshelf upon which exist tomes that I bought purely for showing off with and have never read. Examples that spring to mind include Wuthering Heights (saw the movie instead), Shantaram (too big to take to the beach) and Paul Keating’s biography (appropriate addition to any left-leaning bleeding heart, even if you have never cracked it open).

See, it’s easy to appear much cleverer and more serious than you really are. Really, all it takes is a link or two to a slightly indecipherable if very worthy article on your Facebook page and listening to the same NPR podcasts as everybody else.

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Indeed the ease with which we exaggerate our cleverness proves that there’s something wrong about the exaltation of gravitas.  Seeking to be seen only as smart and worthy can mean that you are the one at the dinner party imperiously asking everybody if they have read the latest Economist/you are never invited to dinner parties. It can also mean that you don’t place any importance on “un-worthy” or “silly” topics like, say, body image or fashion. Indeed there really ought to be a drinking game for predicting when the first call of “first world problems” will appear in the comments on one writer’s searing analysis of how women still don’t own their bodies, or cries of ‘dumbing down’ if fashion stories exist alongside stories about female circumcision. It is both short viewed and sexist to think that one can’t be interested in reading about both.

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Lena Dunham posed as Twiggy for an Entertainment Weekly magazine spread (shot by Ruven Afanador) late last year. Because you can be uber smart and also be excited about playing a fashion icon.

Take clever clogs economics reporter Jessica Irvine. She recently had a book of columns about how economics works in real life published.  In her popular columns Irvine takes complex theories and issues and compresses them into ways that are easy for people to understand. This is a surprisingly hard thing to do - witness the plethora of indecipherable yet worthy columns you may have read.

In 2011 Irvine wrote an overwhelmingly popular column about how she used the principles of economics to lose a whopping 20 kilograms and get into her healthy weight range (no 'thinsperation' here). This year Irvine wrote another column about how she is going to use the same principles to lose the 8 kilograms that she had re-gained this year. Predictably, twitter folk expressed concern that Irvine was tweeting about her adventures in diet land instead of the fiscal cliff. Thus implying that writing about diets is frivolous and not something that a smart economics reporter should bother herself with. Just as Clementine Ford wrote about how going on a diet isn’t a betrayal of the sisterhood, it’s frustrating that only ‘serious’ topics are associated with being smart. Forgetting that it is through pop culture, faffy fiction and gossiping with friends that many of us make sense of the world around us. Beside all that, as Irvine pointed out in her (unnecessary) defence to the concerned citizens, the economic reality of obesity is certainly not silly anyway. Apparently there was a big article about it in The Economist.

The condescending implication that Irvine cannot tweet about economics and dieting at the same time without losing some of her smarts, influence or credibility is completely fraudulent. The popularity of Irvine's economics of dieting columns illustrated this, and it is a shame that Irvine has created an entirely new twitter handle for her diet tweets. Only true dinner party bores would believe that talking only about worthy, sensible things makes you smarter or more interesting than the rest of us.

What’s more, only the very clever can write and chatter about both the worthy and the frivolous in a way that the rest of us can grasp meaning from it. Bonus points if it entertains us at the same time. Ask any in-demand dinner party guest.

8 comments so far

  • Maybe it just got boring after a while? Good on her for losing weight, but it's not an endlessly fascinating topic. Whether or not you have "worthier" things to think or talk about, there's only so long you can listen to one girl talk about how she lost some, gained a bit, wants to lose it, blah blah blah....

    Commenter
    Alice
    Date and time
    January 10, 2013, 10:56AM
    • You always have the option of not listening or reading or watching anything past your boredom threshold.

      Commenter
      Spex
      Location
      Sydney
      Date and time
      January 11, 2013, 9:49AM
  • Smart and dumb women, like smart and dumb men, can talk about whatever they like. I would not use the anonymous world of twitter and the vile criticism everyone attracts as your touchstone of judgement

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    Carstendog
    Location
    Here
    Date and time
    January 10, 2013, 11:09AM
    • I don't see why weight loss is not a serious topic. As a nutritionist/personal trainer of many years experience(with an MBA, currently in a senior management job in a global corporate plus having small businesses - just for the record ) I think I am smart enough to have seen the impact of obesity as people get older and now understand the broader economic impact is significant. Obesity means higher rates of all forms of illness, larger beds needed, more potential for workplace injury in hospitals etc - higher rates of Dementia and alzheimers, slower rate of recoevery - longer hospitalisation.
      So, even 8kgs matters and whatever game/rules/strategies someone uses to lose it, it is SERIOUS business - obesity is the new smoking and I think we do need to stop trivialising it, mistakenly categorising it as a 'pop culture/womens mag/celebrity thing'
      Fat is not a feminist issue - it is a health issue, the health of a nation whose productivity will slow from the consequences of not taking this seriously.
      the economic impact will be significant and cost this country dearly

      Commenter
      lam
      Location
      sydney
      Date and time
      January 10, 2013, 12:37PM
      • Yeah, I get it. Like if I'm an intelligent woman I should not be the slightest bit interested in what I eat, my health, or my weight, because those things are for stupid people, and I must have much better things to think about and be concerned with. I've experienced this judgement! And sadly, have probably judged others for it.

        Commenter
        missz
        Date and time
        January 10, 2013, 12:39PM
        • The objection to Ms Irvine tweeting her diet was that it was boring and clogged up the feed with calories and meals.

          I follow her on Twitter because she's an interesting journalist, not because I'm her friend. Her health is her personal thing and it's neither my business or my interest.

          Commenter
          Old bag
          Date and time
          January 10, 2013, 1:35PM
          • Does this comment make my bum look big?

            Commenter
            Ms Patonga
            Date and time
            January 10, 2013, 1:46PM
            • I agree with this article entirely. (I even momentarily forgot I was reading a Daily Life post!)

              Of course, a smart commentator like Jessica Irvine is quite entitled to write about fluffier topics every so often. In her case, however, she actually managed to write a pretty smart column about the fluffy topic. So she gets double points from me.

              Commenter
              AdamC
              Location
              Melbourne
              Date and time
              January 10, 2013, 1:58PM

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