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The guilt after a child's death

'A new study shows that babies who sleep in their parents' bed are five times more likely to die suddenly than those who sleep in a cot.'

Jemima Lewis We still don’t know why some babies suddenly die, and that makes it even harder to bear.

Grumpy in-laws

So your mother-in-law isn't so keen on you

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SONJA EBBELS Is it really up to you to make things better?

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Taking compliments

Is there a right way to take a compliment?

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SARAH MACDONALD Sarah MacDonald on why deflecting praise isn't necessarily the same as self-loathing.

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Fat talking

Why we need to stop the 'fat chat'

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KASEY EDWARDS A new study shows talking negatively our their bodies doesn't actually help us make friends.

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Will smart phones break your heart?

Can smart phones break your heart?

KATHERINE FEENEY Has the internet really helped us create better love and sex lives? Or will it ruin us after all?

Body image

Stop telling me I'll 'get my body back'

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KATE FRIDKIS Kate Fridkis on why this is one of the worst things to say to a mum-to-be.

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Real life

I had a double mastectomy

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As told by KRYSTAL BARTER to Nicole Elphick In 2009, 29-year-old Sydneysider and mother of three, Krystal Barter, underwent the same surgery Angelina Jolie after testing positive for the BRCA1 gene. She explains how she made the decision to have the mastectomy and what her post-operation life has been like.

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The problem with children

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Yumi Stynes YUMI STYNES, on why the 'you don't know real love until you have children' line is utter nonsense.

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Can't get no sleep

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Chronic insomnia is like a never-ending bad dream for Linda Neil.

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Where are my pregnant breasts?

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KATE FRIDKIS Kate Fridkis on missing out on a 'pregnancy perk'.

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Addicted to convenience

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DOM KNIGHT Why I'll (probably) never leave the inner city.

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Solo karaoke

I went to karaoke on my own

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MONICA TAN One writer takes on an unusual solo-activity on a Friday night.

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Diary of a drunk mum

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Jowita Bydlowska Following the birth of her first baby, Jowita Bydlowska relapsed into alcoholism.

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My father wanted a boy

Michelle Law Michelle Law on how Chinese and Australian cultures interpret the differences between girls and boyst.

Facial surgery

Getting surgery to 'westernise' your face

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BENJAMIN LAW Benjamin Law on what's behind the trend for Asian people to have their faces "westernised".

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My boyfriend's wife

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REBECCA GOLDEN Life inside a relationship with a man in an 'open marriage'.

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Beauty

On highly visible birthmarks

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ANNIE STEVENS Birthmarks, scars and imperfections don't have to be pitied. But don't call them beautiful either.

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Dark side of the internet

'My son saw violent porn'

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Lizi Patch When her 11-year-old son was exposed to a violent porn video online, Lizi Patch was left to explain adult concepts to a confused child.

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Growing up

The friends we make in our 20s

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KATE FRIDKIS Why it's so hard to hold on to the bonds we form in the most action-packed decade.

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Embracing failure

A beginner's guide to failing

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SARAH MACDONALD Sarah Macdonald on the power of admitting your own error.

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Naked truth

When should you cover up in front of your kids?

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JEN VUK Jen Vuk on the moment she realised the co-showering days are over.

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What happened after Paris

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Sarah Turnbull Australian Sarah Turnbull's best-selling memoir Almost French saw her live and love in Paris. This is what she did next.

When kids become religious on their own

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SARAH MACDONALD Children develop faith in their own sweet way, as Sarah Macdonald finds.

Ask a counsellor

Falling for a married man

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ELLY TAYLOR Relationship counsellor Elly Taylor on what to do when you find yourself attracted to a married person.

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Caffeine junkies

Why are we so obsessed with coffee?

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DOM KNIGHT Self-confessed coffee snob Dom Knight examines his addiction.

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Real life

Terminating a high risk pregnancy

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SONJA EBBELS One woman's heartbreaking decision and the judgement she faced because of it.

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Compliments from random women

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KATE FRIDKIS Kate Fridkis on why they are the best kind.

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Real life

Parenting advice from a teenager

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Steph Bowe Nineteen-year-old author Steph Bowe has some sage advice for mothers about the universal teenage experience.

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Bad sex v celibacy

I went 12 years without sex

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Anne-Elisabeth Moutet A Frenchwoman finds that celibacy in a sex-obsessed world is almost sacrilege.

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Dating a younger man

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Sarah Thomas One writer shares the weird and wonderful moments in dating someone 12 years younger.

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Cooking for one

The lazy person’s guide to cooking

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DOM KNIGHT After some serious encouragement from Daily Life readers Dom Knight is attempting to cook for one.

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Predator alert

Filtering out the cyber creeps

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CLEM BASTOW Will the new 'predator alert tool' give women a better online dating experience?

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Social media SOS

Handling cries for help on Facebook

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KASEY EDWARDS How seriously should you take distress signals online?

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Envy spiral

When your friend is living the life you want

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SONJA EBBELS The envy that develops when you see your Facebook friends enjoying life in ways you aren't.

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Culture clash

Growing up Arab in Australia

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AMAL AWAD The pleasures and challenges of growing up in a migrant family.

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Body image

Body image isn't just about weight

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KATE FRIDKIS Kate Fridkis on why our preoccupation with other body 'flaws' can be just as damaging.

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Autism Awareness

Living with Autism

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KATHRYN WICKS Having a child with high-functioning autism doesn't mean living with a genius. These children have their own unique challenges.

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Thoroughly unAustralian

On hating sports

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NICOLE ELPHICK Disliking sports in Australia is like saying carbs are overrated in Italy or stripes aren’t a good look in France.

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Disappearing mums

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Andie Fox Are modern mums really being deliberately sexless, pathologically domestic and 'overly' devoted to their children?

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The importance of saying no

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Samantha Selinger-Morris Why do we insist on being nice to everyone, at the cost of our own sanity?

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Mental health

What the hell does a sex therapist do?

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MATTY SILVER We all know sex therapists exist. We know they help sexual problems. But what exactly is it that they do?

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Talking to someone with a disability

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Carly Findlay Tired of bad manners and awkward ice-breakers, CARLY FINDLAY presents a simple dos and don'ts guide.

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Everyday triumphs

The importance of everyday triumphs

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SARAH MACDONALD Why we need to celebrate the small things to stay sane.

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Body image

Stop telling me my friends aren't pretty

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KATE FRIDKIS KATE FRIDKIS on why putting other women's appearances down won't make her feel any better.

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Arms Trade Treaty

I survived three suicide bombings

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Maliha Miazad MALIHA MIAZAD on why the trade of weapons to war-torn countries must end.

Fertility tests

I took an Egg Timer Test

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JOCELYN BREWER JOCELYN BREWER took a blood test to find out about her 'ovarian reserve'. This is what happened next...

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Losing a long-term partner

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Dennis Altman When we live in a society without mourning clothes, how do you let strangers know your loved one has died?

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I met an all-female demining team

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Ming Yu What it feels like to meet the Sri Lankan women who risked their lives for the safety of others.

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Can families heal from forced adoption?

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Angela Barra ANGELA BARRA's biological mother was forced to give her away over 20 years ago. This is her story.

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Confessional writing

In defence of the personal essay

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KATE FRIDKIS Why writing about yourself isn't the same as being self-centered.

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Child-free life

Choosing to be child-free

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SHELLY HORTON Shelly Horton doesn't want children. So, she asks, why do so many people have a problem with that?

The seven signs you're ageing

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DOM KNIGHT When you don't know or care what Snapchat is -- are you just more discerning or are you middle aged?

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I saved the life of my child's abuser

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Angela [Trigger warning: discussion of child abuse]

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Crisis photography

Female war photographers

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Cosima Marriner Three crisis-zone photographers talk about the most memorable moment they've captured on film.

Modern parenting

Why children need to make mistakes

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Jessica Lahey Kids must be allowed to make mistakes and a new study details the reasons why.

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Sharing childhood trauma

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Louis Nowra How a group of mistreated youngsters briefly found comfort and support in each other.

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Depression after miscarriage

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Monica Dux If early-term embryos are a mere "jumble of cells", why did this writer feel such intense sadness over her eight-week miscarriage?

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Post-wedding blues

Missing the single life

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Pippa Doyle A recently married woman has a pang of nostalgia for the days when she was foot-loose-and-fancy-free.

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Grey divorce

Adult children of divorce

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KASEY EDWARDS What it feels like to be conscripted to the frontlines of your parents’ emotional war.

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Advice every child should hear

The birthday letter every mum should write

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Julianna W. Miner The kind of honest, funny, heart-warming words every child should hear.

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