Kate Fridkis

Kate Fridkis

Writer, blogger at Eat the Damn Cake

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Body image

Stop telling me I'll 'get my body back'

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Kate Fridkis Kate Fridkis on why this is one of the worst things to say to a mum-to-be.

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Body image

Where are my pregnant breasts?

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Kate Fridkis Kate Fridkis on missing out on a 'pregnancy perk'.

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Growing up

The friends we make in our 20s

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Kate Fridkis Why it's so hard to hold on to the bonds we form in the most action-packed decade.

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Compliments from random women

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Kate Fridkis Kate Fridkis on why they are the best kind.

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Mother groups

Why I'm scared to go to a 'birth club'

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Kate Fridkis Kate Fridkis on why she isn't ready to think of herself as a mum yet.

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Body image

Body image isn't just about weight

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Kate Fridkis Kate Fridkis on why our preoccupation with other body 'flaws' can be just as damaging.

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Body image

Stop telling me my friends aren't pretty

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Kate Fridkis KATE FRIDKIS on why putting other women's appearances down won't make her feel any better.

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Confessional writing

In defence of the personal essay

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Kate Fridkis Why writing about yourself isn't the same as being self-centered.

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Body image

Why can't women think they're pretty?

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Kate Fridkis Is there any shame in wanting to be beautiful?

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Body image

How pregnancy changes your body image

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Kate Fridkis As the Mayo Clinic guide warns: “Simply put, you may feel fat and unattractive.”

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The beauty myth

On being terrible at makeup

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Kate Fridkis The pleasures and sorrows of bypassing Beauty 101.

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Real life

When a woman loses her hair

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Kate Fridkis KATE FRIDKIS on what it feels like to cope with hair loss after her 22nd birthday.

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Relationships

Stop telling me marriage is hard

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Kate Fridkis KATE FRIDKIS is sick of sounding like a fake for saying she’s happily married.

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Female friendships

The friendship contract

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Kate Fridkis Don't we all deserve an explanation when a close relationship ends?

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Mothers and daughters

My mum is an extrovert

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Kate Fridkis What happens when a quiet girl is brought up by a hypersocial parent.

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Real life

An apology to my thinner friend

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Kate Fridkis How often do we feel that someone else's body is a commentary on our own?

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Real life

My body image issues are not about men

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Kate Fridkis Why comments like, "Don't worry, you'll find someone" won't help.

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Beauty myths

When your mum is exquisitely beautiful

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Kate Fridkis And you are not.

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